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These are hard times and I am feeling the same feelings. Nobody nothing no money no help and nowhere to go. I am trying to maintain a positive attitude because I deserve it and so do you.
We all deserve a chance at a better life. It resonated with me when you said nobody what’s to get involved. For me, I have had help the first few times I left. But I kept going back to the abusive relationship.
Making a Safe and Responsible Decision
And idk how much longer I can live like this . I actually don’t know how to out into words how I feel other than very emotiotionaly drained, hurt and tired. He makes me feel like I’m worthless and rubbish a lot of the time and every now and again when I feel like all hope is lost he changes for a while and things are ok. I always feel like I’m treading on egg shells and feel I have to be careful what I say as if I ask him an honest question I would be afraid of his truthful reply.
This still is not getting me gainfully employed. I can’t find full time work that someone will hire me for at this age. I have a few friends…male and female who are also experiencing this.
Lately I’ve been hearing lots of stories about people wanting to run away from everything, escape, walk out.
If you grew up in the same city, it may be time to broaden your horizons and explore a new town. For Fordham University senior Sarah Curcio, that was one of the biggest reasons she decided to go to a school out of state. There are many possible reasons, such as criminality, abuse, neglect by family, ostracism from society, hatred, anger, fear... Not everyone finds suburban sanctity to work for them. For example, if you’re normally a T-shirt and jeans kind of person, switch it up.
He didn’t need to know I only paid $22 for that $300 dollar coat right? My shopping was acceptable to him because he thought it took most of my money. Over time I picked up more accounts. My “loving” husband would bang, stomp, and yell to deprive me of sleep. I have been diagnosed with “chronic fatigue syndrome”. If I hit that “wall” it can literally hurt.
Be curious about your options for leaving! Imagine the “what if’s”
She tells me not to get jealous. This woman makes more money than I’ve ever seen anyone make. Almost a month behind on rent and all other bills. I have no money and no car I’ve just about lost everything except my children. I know it sounds weird coming from a man.
I started getting terrible headaches because of the heat and the stress, I ended up in the emergency room doing CT scans and MRI to test for brain injury. Since married to this man, my heart was affected by murmurs. I don’t sleep at nights because I need to get out of this marriage, it’s so sad that I was set up and persued by this lifetime movie character, I wish he had left me alone.
If you’re moving to another country, people will think you’re all strange and exotic.
Certainly, the women writing these are younger and don’t have enough experience to understand everyone’s experience. If you are in your 20s or 30s – RUN. You are young enough to make a life. If you are female and over 50 you may be in for a very rough ride or completely stuck. If you were smart or lucky enough to build a career then you may be able to go.
I do know that I want my daughter to know, her mom was brave enough to leave and that she loved herself enough to do so. I am the last of my family, where can i go? But i cant just drive with no destination without a way to pay for gas or shelter. I don’t mind sleeping in my van but time is running out. I have been in this relationship for 9 years.
The “majority of homeless people” are not “weak” or “failures.” You should spend time with those less fortunate and gain some compassion. You have looked down on homeless people your whole life? And you don’t know jack about Hinduism, friend. When you leave everything behind, it can also mean you’re leaving everyone behind.
I am also in my late 50’s so finding a job and a place to live that I’m happy with is also harder. I am trying to get some support from him so that I have a little money to start out with. I don’t have physical abuse but I feel emotionally exhausted and lack of care for me is abuse.
Her school her friends I would hate for her too lose all that and live in my moms 1 bedroom apt with my 2 brothers with my 3 kids there’s no way that would work. I reached out to you because reading ur story was like reading mine and I wanted to share the future with u because I’m living in it. If ur feeling it now barely in the beginning then leave while it’s still fresh before u are “stuck”. I am in an emotionally abusive relationship and need to leave.
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